I Hope You Make Room for Joy

Where I am, snow fell yesterday, covering the world in a thick blanket of cold whiteness. Today, it was one of those cold, clear days that immediately precedes "autumn" - which I define as the time before snow comes, when you still have a reason to justify why you aren't wearing a coat. And, like the rebel I am, I refused to wear a coat this morning, though I shivered as I got in the car and winced as my fingers scraped away the icy frosting that coated the windshield. As much as I dislike admitting "Baby, it's cold outside", clearly "it's beginning to look a lot like Christmas." Snow puts me in the Christmas mood more than anything.

Oh, it's snowing? Time for hot chocolate! Time to set up the tree! Break out those twinkle lights!

What does Christmas mean to you? To me, it's seeing my family together, laughing about old jokes and maybe even crying about new grievances. It's the songs that we sing, it's the candles that burn in the dark, it's seeing the presents and the stockings and the happiness on faces as the ones I love open their gifts. But mostly it's that feeling of joy that comes with my Christmas - that feeling of serving, of speaking, of acting, and of giving in love.

This feeling of joy is, I think, hard for some to grasp. When I was younger, I had a hard time grasping this concept of joy when I was told that it didn't include my receiving more presents. Some people are just tired. Such Christmas joy might be a little hard to find this season. So, in the spirit of Christmas, I am going to detail just what I think makes people feel a little more kind, a little more hopeful, and a little more joyful during the Christmas season. I propose three things to do at the same time to get a "layer effect" and the most fulfilling joy this December, and hopefully throughout the rest of the year.

1. SERVE IN LOVE

Galatians 5:13 says, "For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don't use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love." Most people in America acknowledge that Christmas is a time of giving, more than receiving. Christmas movies are full of people "sacrificing" something to make someone else's lives better. A silly example of this would be in Elf, when Buddy's father "sacrifices" his pride for the sake of Buddy's "Christmas spirit" or belief in Santa Claus; a better example would be in the movie The Christmas Shoes, when a little boy works very hard to earn money and then spends it all on a pair of shoes to give to his mother before she passes away of a heart disease. Serving others always gives the server and the one being served alike a wonderful feeling. But I think that we as Christians, and as people, need to remember that it isn't about us. Sometimes people can serve others just to look good. That isn't right and that isn't what the Bible is talking about. It is not about us, not about what we can get out of giving. We have been freed from the chains of this world, and we need to use that freedom to serve one another and to bring good into the world. This is the first step to being joyful. As yourself, "What can I do today for someone else that will put a genuine smile on their face that won't reflect back on me?" And then go and do it.

2. SPEAK IN LOVE

I believe that speaking in love is one of the most important aspects of sharing hope, as I have mentioned in many posts previously, but I also believe that it is one of the ways to encourage joy in yourself as well. Galatians 5:15 ("But if you are always biting and devouring each other, watch out! Beware of destroying one another!") talks of the dangers of not speaking in love. We will destroy the church if we do not speak in love, and that is not the way to encourage joy. Instead, like the question mentioned in the first point, ask yourself, "What can I say to someone today that will encourage them?" And this will help to make room for the joy of the Lord to enter in your life - if you can make a daily habit and indeed a lifestyle out of speaking in love.

3. ACT IN LOVE

All of these traits come about by looking for the good in others, even when you want to see the bad. In order to be joyful, we must make every effort to avoid conflicts, and to give up the desires of our fleshly natures in Christ's name. Galatians 5:22 speaks on this when it says, "Those who belong to Christ Jesus have nailed the passions and desires of their sinful nature to his cross and crucified them there."  They should be dead to us. In order to have complete joy in Christ, we should not be and cannot be living a life of sin. If you have some kind of sin lurking in your heart, it may be what is causing you not to feel joyful this Christmas season. If so, confess it now to the Lord Jesus, and he will forgive you and fill you with every peace and joy that will last all through Christmastime and beyond. The questions for this section do not have to do with what you can do for others, but how you may need to change: "How can I change my actions so I am acting in love?" and perhaps even, "What do I need to give up?"

In the end, the only true way to find joy in this life is to find Jesus Christ and to follow him. But through the conscious effort to renew our following the Spirit's leading and living every part of our lives with love, true joy is possible, no matter what the circumstances.

I hope you are filled with the joy of Christ this Christmas season, and may you all have a very merry Christmas!

See you in January! <3 <3 <3

I Hope You Realize How Important It Is To Prepare

Jack Wyrtzen, a very successful sharer of hope and the founder of the highly impactful Word of Life ministries, was fond of saying, "I believe it is the responsibility of every generation to reach their generation for Christ." That is such an inspiring message in just a few words. It is a call to arms, a command for those in our generation who have the hope of Jesus to bring it to others in the world. Almost like an ad campaign for a job:

Calling all Christians! Help spread the Word! It's worth it in the end! Benefits include life after death - ultimate health insurance - riches beyond belief in heaven! Help save the world!

Except that it isn't us saving the world. We are not superheroes. We are not angels. We are humans - flawed, sinful, selfish, prideful humans - and we don't have it under control. And, "You can't do the will of God if you don't know the Word of God,": another popular "Jack-ism".

Which brings me to the point I'd like to discuss today.

Too often today I hear young people refusing to open their minds to the possibility of deep Bible study because it "isn't part of my plan" or "I don't have enough time" or even going so far as to say "that would be a waste of time". Too often basketball or boyfriends or work or life in general gets in the way and we're like, "Nah, I'll hold off for now. It can wait." But while we're sitting around waiting, we are wasting time that could, and should, and must, be spent preparing for the ministry that God has planned for our lives.

Do you really know enough on your own?

Are you prepared to lead your children to Christ? Do you have the knowledge to witness and be a light in your workplace?

No. The fact remains that most likely, no matter how put together you think you are, how much of a light you think you will be in your workplace, you have nothing without the knowledge of God.

Nothing.

Too many young people, too many of my friends, are career-driven. Too many young people think that church is enough, that the Sunday school lessons and youth group messages and small groups will be enough preparation for the task ahead. But no matter how prepared you might think you are, there is always more that God wants to teach you.

In order to be a light as a doctor, as a teacher, as a writer, or as a parent, one must take the time to learn. This is not to say that you haven't been brought up well. This is not to say that you are any less talented or any less spiritual. This is just to say that the youth of today have a pride issue, and that absolutely must be addressed if anything is to get done for Christ in our generation. This pride issue is unnoticed and practiced unwittingly, but it is still there, festering and growing under the wily and deceptive teaching of the world. These are subtly input into the young person through the media - through the T.V. shows and movies we watch, through the music we listen to, through the posts we see online. Everyone has an agenda. The world says things like, "You are who you are,", "Every inch of you is perfect,", "I shake it off,", "I don't have time for people who hate me because I'm too busy loving me."

I'm not saying that body positivity or whatever isn't good. All I'm saying is that the media is brainwashing you into thinking that you are serving you, and in the life of a Christian, that is simply not true.

You are not in control of your life. If you are truly a Christian, then you have made a decision to commit your life to Christ - which means you have surrendered your plan. It isn't your plan anymore. It is subject to change at any time. And that is a truth that must be accepted if we are to reach our generation. Psalm 10:4 describes this situation perfectly when it says, "In his pride the wicked man does not seek Him; in all his thoughts there is no room for God." A humble spirit is about making yourself smaller to make God bigger.


"He has given me those dreams as a part of His purpose."

Being a young person myself and in the midst of deliberating God's plan for my future, I have come to the realization that I have a pride issue myself. In all my wanting to change the world and do great things, in all my desire to make people happy and do something that matters in this life, I had forgotten that God runs it all. Without Him, it is impossible for my dreams to come true because He has given me those dreams as a part of His divine purpose. 1 Corinthians 2:9 says, "No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love Him." He has a wonderful plan and I am a part of that. But I cannot do anything real, anything that matters, without Him. It is impossible.

"You can't do the will of God if you don't know the Word of God."

Do I truly know the Word of God? And how much do I have to know to be able to discern God's will for my life?

Think on this, friends. We have been given a quest. In all the great stories, did the hero just sit up one day and decide, "I think today I'll defeat Voldemort," or "Guess I should tackle the Dark Side today, hope the Force is on my side,"? No! Practice was involved! Learning was crucial to success! It always is, you know. No one intrinsically has the knowledge of anything. And yet we think we can handle everything.

Why is that?

Truly, we are small beings. We are like ants who think we can move a piece of bread without working up our strength. It a wonder God chooses to use us at all, frail that we are, and yet He does, in His infinite mercy. We are called to this. This is our quest. To reach our generation for Christ.

But, like Harry or Luke, we can't just sit up in bed one morning and say to ourselves, "I'm going to start a praise team," or "I know it's God's will for me to marry - so-and-so." The knowledge of the Bible is crucial to anything and everything we do, from day-to-day choices to important life decisions.

Sometimes, those who have grown up in Christian households may feel like they already know all there is to know about the Bible. Some people do not feel the need for special study. But there is always something more to learn. Especially for the young person, just starting out in life and not sure exactly where God has placed them, serious devotion to Bible study is a good thing and, dare I say, a necessary thing. Even Paul, one of the most learned men of his time, spent three years preparing in Damascus before beginning ministry and then spent another eleven years participating in local church ministries before heading out on his first missionary trip (Galatians 1:11-24). There is always more that God wants us to learn and always something to prepare for.

The realization that God's plan may not be your plan might be a scary thing at first. It was for me. I was terrified at the prospect of attending Word of Life Bible Institute for an entire year before what I considered my "real life" could begin. But the more I prayed and thought about it, the more I began to realize that God does not waste our time, especially time spent in His Word. I don't know everything and I am not well-equipped for my life ahead: but I want to be. And walking blindly into ministry is not something that is smart or necessarily valuable, no matter how well-developed your (or my) particular talents are. God's plan for your life may not include Bible college, and I can't tell you what His plan is specifically, but I can tell you this: if your heart is hardened to the prospect of serious Bible study, then you will miss out on the benefits that this brings. Psalm 34:10 says, "Those who seek the Lord shall not lack any good thing." This does not mean that if you casually study the Bible you will get whatever you want. This means that God wishes His followers to study and get to know Him through His Word, and those who obey this command will reap the benefits that others will miss out on, not only in ministry but also in life.

So, dear friends, please open your minds and hearts to the prospect of preparation, whether that means something as intense as attending a Bible school for a year or simply taking the time for daily devotions. The heart needs to be conditioned. If not, it will fall back into the ways of the world. For those who love Jesus and wish to serve Him, anything can be a ministry, but nothing will be pleasing if not done with the right motives and the correct understanding of the Word of God. Yes, we are called to reach our generation for Christ. But we cannot do it without knowledge of who Christ is. Be open to change. Be open to learn. Not only will your ministry benefit, but you will benefit as well.

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For more about Jack, see: Jack Wyrtzen (Wikipedia)

For more on intensive Bible and ministry training, see: Word of Life Bible Institute: Deepen Your Faith

For an opportunity for students to intern in a local church and learn what it means to be part of the Body of Christ, see: The 360 Experience

I Hope You Have Friends

First of all, I'd just like to apologize for the wait. While I was away I had little time to write anything other than that which was necessary for my class, and since I have been home my family has been dealing with a small crisis, so I did not have time to write then, either. That being said, I am getting this out much earlier than expected! So yay for that. Also, thank you all so much for your prayers and support.

Now: on to the show.

This post is dedicated to my best friend group Rachael, Kenzie, Abbott, Maya, Caleb and Amanda: For all the times we stayed up late talking about nothing, for all the private jokes we have, for every time we played "todge

-pong" and "MASH", for all the times I hurt myself and one of you carried me, for all the garbage you've gotten me through, for all the songs and the memories and the tears and the laughter, and for all the notes-in-class and the that's-not-how-you-do-it's and the teasing-about-boyfriends and the fighting-about-stupid-stuff and the I-miss-you-more's, I love you all so much. Thanks for being there for me!  

Friendship. The concept has been around, as far as we know, since the dawn of time. Although not specifically stated, Adam and Eve were obviously friends (as all lovers should be in my humble opinion). Then of course David and Jonathan. Even Jesus had best friends. So as far back as we can go with a written record, there have been such things as friends and people living together in mutual "like" - if not always in harmony. But what exactly is friendship? Why has it been around for so long? What does it look like to be a good friend? And why are friends important in our walk with God?

 

Well, I'm glad you asked.

 

True friendship is hard to define. Here are some of the ways I've heard it described:

 

"A true friend is someone who has touched your heart and will stay there."

 

"True friendship is when someone knows you better than yourself and takes a position in your best interests in a crisis."

 

"Friendship goes beyond just sharing time together, and it is long lasting. Friendship can mean different things to different people."

 

Jesus gives us the best example of what a best friend should be willing to do. He gave us the definition of a true friend: "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you" (John 15:13-15). Jesus is the pure example of a true friend, for He laid down His life for His friends. And anyone may become His friend by trusting in Him as his personal savior, being born again and receiving new life in Him!

 

So we know that Jesus should be (and is, if you have accepted His free gift of salvation) our best friend. But that only half answers the first question. What if we are willing to lay down our lives for our friends, but the opportunity never presents itself? Science says that friendship is part of what makes us who we are. In a recent study, a group studied the brain scans of twenty-two people who were under the threat of receiving a small electrical shock to themselves, a friend, or a stranger. Scientists discovered that the brain activity of the person in danger, versus that when a friend is, is essentially the same. What is the point of all this? Well, "people close to us become a part of ourselves," says James Coan, psychologist and director of the study, "and that's not just a metaphor or poetry, it's very real. Literally, we are under threat when a friend is under threat." (10 True Facts about Friendship: What Scientists Have To Say). If you never have to give up your life for your best friends, thank God for that. You have been blessed. But  it does not mean you are not friends if you don't have to. Your friends are a part of you. Literally. And you don't have to die for them to make that statement a reality.



Why has friendship been around for so long? Because God created it when he first created humans. Genesis 2:18 says, "Then the Lord God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.'" (NLT). And you know the rest. Or maybe you don't. God created Eve to be Adam's helper and partner and friend, and commanded them to multiply and fill the earth with other humans who were made in God's image.

 

And they lived happily ever after.

 



Ha, ha! Just kidding! They ate from the tree that God had forbidden them to eat from and here we are, thousands of years later, still bearing witness to the fact that all disobedience comes with consequences. But, even amidst all the chaos that has ensued since then on this dismal planet we call home, God saw fit to throw us a bone - a blessing we call friendship. Friendship is a flower in the rainforest. It is a bright spot in a dark place. Who doesn't smile when they see two little girls playing dress-up together, or when they witness two teens playing basketball? It's a beautiful thing and I thank the Lord every day that He has given me such great friends. Why do you think every movie has the stereotypical "goofy best friend"? Because friendship is relatable, it's real, and it's beautifully hopeful. 

 

Friendship is relatable, it's real, and it's beautifully hopeful.

And that, my friends, is why friendship is still around.

 

Because we need each other.

 

We need each other, not on a romantic level but simply on a relational level. We need someone to sympathize with us when we go through tough times. We need someone to laugh with us when we can't stop laughing. We need a sidekick who will go with us when we need to defeat the Voldemort or the Sauron or the Darth Vader in our lives. We need each other. Human beings were created to be social creatures, meaning that we are most comfortable when we have family, friends and acquaintances. Friendship is an important element in a fulfilled, contented life, and those who have close friends, whether one or two or a million and a half, will usually be happy and well-adjusted. At the same time, those who call themselves our friends may cause us grief and hardship, constantly disappointing us. How do we avoid being the grief-causer ourselves?

 

Being a good friend takes work. No friendship is perfect. Luke 6:31 says, "Do to others as you would have them do to you." This has been considered the "Golden Rule" for quite some time but people often misuse it and believe it to mean that if you treat others in a way you wouldn't mind being treated that makes it ok, and thus it can easily be used to rationalize immoral behavior. The verse instead means to treat others with the respect you would like to receive, and this is very important in friendships, especially with that one friend (and everyone has them) with very strong opinions that might differ from yours. In general, thinking about the other person in the relationship as more important than yourself helps quite a bit when trying to be a good friend. In this way, their needs are always met and they are happy to do the same for you. To know more about what the Bible says about being a good friend, click here.

 

I think it has been established that friends are a great thing to have. But even more than just being fun to have around, good Christian friends are monumentally important in our spiritual walks with Christ. If you are married, I hope your spouse fills this role. Our Christian friends are to be helping build up our relationships with Christ, helping us along the Narrow Way. In a beautiful analogy, J.R.R.Tolkien writes of Sam never leaving Frodo, even carrying him up Mount Doom towards his final destination. In the same way, we as friends are to stick by one another, to chastise each other when we are in the wrong, and to love each other as we love ourselves. "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another" (Proverbs 27:17). This means that by helping others notice when they are in the wrong, we are helping them be more like Christ - and vice versa. Friends are a wonderful gift. "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity" (Proverbs 17:17). 

 

No one should have to go through life feeling alone. Take a moment today and pray for someone that you think might be going through that. Then, if you have the opportunity, talk to them. Befriend them, even if it's not "cool". God made all of us to crave human connection and some of us are simply bad communicators, or seriously shy, or have been lowered in some way. It should not matter. It takes a friend to have friends. And the person that realizes that will spread hope throughout their world. 

 

"A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother" (Proverbs 18:24). 

 

COMMENT BELOW!!!!! Which friendship pair is your favorite? Which one reminds you of you and your best friend/spouse? Tell me your thoughts!

 

CREDIT: "10 True Facts about Friendship: What Science Has to Say." HuffPost Lifestyle: United Kingdom. Sept. 4, 2014. http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/09/04/10-facts-about-friendship_n_5764448.html 

 

 



I Hope You are a Witness

"I think a man's religion is personal, so we shouldn't discuss it."

"I don't like people who are fanatical about their religion. They try to force their views on everyone."

"I'm happy with my own way of life."

What Christian hasn't heard unbelievers making excuses like this? Maybe you even made a few yourself before you were saved. But, unfortunately for those of us who fear people's judgmental glances and uncomfortable words, these excuses are exactly that: excuses. They aren't a good reason to shy away from verbally witnessing to the people around you. Jesus directly gave us the command to tell others His story when he issued the Great Commission: "Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation. Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned" (Mark 16:15-16). One of the most important ways we can share hope with this world is to witness. We have the hope, the only hope, for this world, and we have to get the word out about it. There is no better way to bring hope to this weary world than to share the love of Jesus with the hopeless.

"But," says the taciturn, perhaps fearful, one, "I witness by my life! When the people around me see me loving them and being kind and showing other fruits of the Spirit, they will be able to see Jesus in me!"

Well, yes. 2 Corinthians 4:6-7 says “Because the God who said, Out of darkness light shall shine, is the One who shined in our hearts to illuminate the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. But we have this treasure in earthen vessels that the excellency of the power may be of God and not out of us." Jesus' Holy Spirit is in us as believers, and people should notice this. But they don't always. It's easy to confuse a "good" person with a Christian. Christians aren't the only ones with moral codes - we just have a set standard in the Bible, and others get theirs from who-knows-where. They make it up, sometimes, based on conscience and society.


Even if a nonbeliever in your life notices that you are "different" (in a good way), it still doesn't guarantee that they will look into why. They may just assume that you are an extra-nice person, and then they'll move on with their life. Rarely does someone actually come up to you and start the "witnessing" conversation with, "Hey, are you a Christian?" Although that does happen. But because it is so rare, the best thing for a dedicated Christian to do is to seek out opportunities themselves.

Opportunities are not always going to present themselves easily, of course. We're not all pastors, or teachers. How does the stay-at-home mom, the secretary, the sandwich maker, or the lifeguard find opportunities to interact with people for more than a few moments? Seeking these witnessing opportunities is a delicate art which must be practiced, much like acting or painting or taking the SATs. Many moments slip by, unnoticed by the inattentive believer, that could easily have led into an opportunity to share the faith.

For example, once upon a time there was a bagger at a grocery store. Let's call him Sam. Sam is a devout Christian who goes to church every Sunday, reads his Bible and prays the normal amount, but he is relatively quiet and does not like to start conversations with strangers. There is a woman who comes regularly to the grocery store, and usually uses Sam's checkout lane. She sometimes chats with Sam, though he would rather avoid it if he can help it. He assumes that she is not a believer but has never given it much thought. Today, this woman comes in wearing a pretty cross necklace, and she asks Sam if he likes it.

Sam politely says that he thinks it's very pretty and moves on to bagging the next carton of milk.

Did you catch that? Did you see the missed opportunity? What if, instead, it had happened like this:

Today, this woman comes in wearing a cross necklace, and she asks Sam if he likes it. While bagging the next carton of milk, Sam says that he thinks the necklace is very pretty. Then, as he ties the top of the bag, he casually questions, "Are you religious?"


The woman hands Sam a few bills. "Maybe I will."

"Oh, no." She answers, laughing. "I'll believe anything. I just bought the necklace because it was on sale." Then, taking the bag, she asks, "Are you? Religious, I mean?"

He carefully sets her lettuce and bread into the next plastic bag and says, "I am a Christian. I believe that Jesus is the Son of God and that he died on the cross to save us, because we are all sinners. If that makes me religious, then yeah, I guess I am."

"Do you go to church?" She asks after a pause.

Sam ties the bag. "Yes, at Lakewood First Baptist on Main Street. You should come, it's very interesting. We have services at 10:00 and 11:00."

The woman hands Sam a few bills and smiles. "Maybe I will."

Sam had an opportunity to plant a seed in that woman's heart, and in the second example, he spotted it right off and was able to accomplish the small task that God had set before him. Practice makes perfect. How did Sam recognize that opportunity? He had watched others capitalize on opportunities before and probably had done it himself. "Just living it" would not have gotten that woman into church that Sunday, because she would not have been able to tell the difference between a friendly bagger and a Christian bagger. Sam didn't force his beliefs on the woman - he simply led the conversation in a direction that would allow him to share them freely.

We as believers need to realize that there is an urgency to telling others about Christ. If we genuinely care for other people, as the Bible says we should, then we should be telling as many people as we possibly can before it's too late. Because it is a matter of life and death, and not just life here on earth. Eternal life...or eternal death and separation from God. "It is better to go to a house of mourning than to go to a house of feasting, because that is the end of every man, and the living takes it to heart." Ecclesiastes (7:2) points out that every man meets the same end - to die - which makes that event a milestone of infinite importance. Once we know what will happen to us after we die, we must turn our eyes to the blind. We lazily think that perhaps tomorrow, or the next day, one of the unbelievers we know will "see the light" and question us about our faith. No. We need to demonstrate a passion for Christ and share our faith when opportunities like this present themselves. Matthew 5:6 says this:  "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled."  That includes looking for times when sharing our faith would be appropriate and the hearer would be responsive. The hearers are now more important than ourselves. As long as you are clear on the fact that you must witness about Christ after you are saved, and not as a means to get saved, then the Holy Spirit will give you guidance and will help you find the right words to say (John 14:26).

We are commanded by Jesus to witness, no matter how scary it seems to be. Everything in this world will eventually fade away. There is nothing that we can do about that. Jesus will make a new Earth, and what is on this one will be no more. Take courage then in the fact that what is in this world is really superficial. It will not last. People's judgment will not last. But people will - either in ecstasy or torment. That thought is what comforts me when I find myself noting an opportunity and silently debating whether or not to take it. We should always take it. We don't really have an excuse not to. That little tug of fear is the Devil's last defense, his last hope that you won't help another person find God. You might only plant a seed, or you might sit with someone and help them understand how to accept Jesus right then and there. Either way, to Satan, it is a swift kick where it hurts, and that means more hope for this world.

A man's religion is personal. That's why we should discuss it.

We should be fanatical about Jesus, without trying to force our views. We should be respectful and kind, and know when enough is enough for the time being.

We should kindly show people the error of their way of life, doing our best to tell the truth honestly and without excessively hurting them, because that will make them shy away from Christians as a whole.

We must be witnesses. We must be lights. We must be a city on a hill.

Be that stay-at-home mom that shares her faith with her kid's friends' moms at a birthday party.
Be that secretary who reads her Bible at work to make her boss curious about Christianity.
Be that sandwich maker who wears a Christian t-shirt to incite comments.
Be that lifeguard who sings Christian songs to Jesus on shift, no matter how many people she's carefully watching.

 

I hope you realize what an important task has been set before us as Jesus' followers: the task of telling His story and bring His light to this dark world. Go be a light for the God we love!

I Hope You Share Kindness

 

I consider May to be the beginning of spring. April is wet and gloomy, and no matter how green the grass gets, it's always covered in at least half a foot of mud - wet mud. But April showers bring May flowers, and that is why I like May the best out of every month. Pink buds are starting to peek out of the old, winter-worn tree branches. The weather begins to grace us with blue skies and warm, sunny days. Spring is one of those times when everything seems possible, when spirits are high, and, it seems to me, gives people a feeling of adventure, of unity, and of kindness. As Meg Ryan says as Catherine Boyd in IQ, "Everything goes through upheaval in the spring, don't you think?"

I do.

Because spring represents to us new beginnings and new arrivals, it is the season of hope. And one of the best ways to spread hope, in my opinion, is to share random acts of kindness. It shows people that you care about them, that you want to help them, and that not all strangers are the same kind you have to avoid on the street. (Disclaimer: some are, so stay smart and stay safe...)

According to Wikipedia,  a random act of kindness is "a selfless act performed by a person or a group wishing to either assist or to cheer up a person by being kind, thoughtful, polite, giving out compliments, volunteering, or forgiving someone." They are deliberate attempts to bring true happiness to a culture that is starving for it. Kindness shows others that they count.

Originally associated with Anne Herbert, who is said to have once written "Practice random acts of kindness and senseless acts of beauty" on a place mat in a restaurant, this concept has become an organized celebration through various events around the world, as well as referring to a general call to action in the name of kindness. I think that it is a great idea, and a Biblical one as well. Ephesians 4:32 says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." Luke 6:35 says, "But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil." That is not to say that if you act kind you will be granted access to Heaven - our actions have nothing to do with our initial salvation. That's all about believing in Christ's sacrifice and admitting your own sinfulness. However, after that step has been taken, God commands that his children be kind to everyone.

When you are kind randomly and don't expect anything in return, you will be noticed. It's like a ray of sunshine in a dark, murky pond. And because of this, random acts of kindness are a great way to "be a light for Christ"; to show others that we are different in a positive way. No one will think badly of you except maybe to say that you are "too nice", and honestly, what kind of insult is that? 

Being kind should mainly be for others. That should be why we do random acts of kindness: to honor God by loving on other people. However, sometimes, kindness can be abused.

For example: once upon a time there was a guy and a girl in a Baptist youth group. The guy was trying to impress the girl by being nice to her - getting her drink, lending her his jacket, that kind of thing. When this failed, he realized - being reasonably intelligent for a teenage guy - that she would probably notice him more if he exaggerated his "niceness" and "Christian-ness" to others around him. So he started faking it with everyone else: helping old ladies across the street, turning his house into a homeless shelter, wheeling disabled children into the church building. Finally, thinking that he was "such a sweet guy", the girl took notice of him and they got together and lived happily ever after.

Now, obviously, that isn't a true story. But that is sometimes how people think kindness is, when in reality, they are just being kind to get what they want. That is a selfish attitude and, I think, it destroys any positivity from the act itself. True kindness stems from selflessness and humility in an individual. That guy wasn't "sweet" because he was essentially being dishonest. While it was a nice thought, the action was not done with the right motives, and motivation is key. 

But being kind with a pure heart, expecting nothing in return, can bring one of the keenest senses of happiness. There is a joy that comes in knowing you have helped someone. Even in the darkest of circumstances, small acts of kindness can bring a ray of much-needed hope to a despairing group of people. This is miraculous, it is beautiful, and it is something that can only come from one with the love of Jesus shining from them. Kindness can even be an act of courage, for when done in a time or place when kindness is looked down upon or forbidden, acting on it becomes something of enormous bravery.

In this clip from the 2011 version of Jane Eyre, we see two girls growing up in a stringent private school. One, Helen Burns, is dying of tuberculosis. The other, Jane Eyre, who drops her chalkboard in an act of defiance to her teachers, is appalled at the mistreatment of her already sick friend. She is punished.

Helen disobeys the master of the school and gives her own bread to her friend, even though 1. she needs it to get stronger, 2. the master has forbidden it, and 3. she could very easily have been caught, as she was surrounded by so many other girls. However, Helen Burns' kindness in this one instance kept Jane Eyre going, and she survived her dreadful school upbringing when many of the other girls did not.

Kindness is kind of like magic. For no explainable reason, one small kind act can make other people want to be kind, too. It can brighten a million people's day, all because one person decided to be nice. And because it works this way, I have been looking for kindness inspiration and have collected a few stories that inspire me to be kinder to the people around me. One of them is just people being nice. The other is an amazing group of people who are making a difference through kindness. Check these out: 

 

 

 

 

So there you have it, folks! People can make a difference through kindness, even it that just means being friendly to that annoying guy in the cubicle next to yours. Even if that just means paying for the person behind you in the Dunkin' Donuts drive through. Kindness generates happiness and happiness generates kindness in a cycle, so if someone starts it, it will keep going on and on! Be that person! This spring, I hope you see others needs. I hope you feel happy. And I hope you share kindness!

 

Colossians 3:12 (ESV):   

"Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience..."



I Hope You Realize Your Worth

Recently I posted about humility, and I said that humility is not thinking too low about yourself. I decided to pontificate on that because it is something that I struggle with, and something that I think a lot of people can relate to.

My problem tends to be that I tell myself I'm never good enough. I have so many problems and I obsess over them, so I feel unworthy of anyone else's affection, as if other people know about my personal struggles and are judging me for them. My brain tells me that they aren't, but deep inside, I just know they are. No one else has told me that I'm not good enough or done anything to make me feel that way - I just have high standards of myself, and I fall short constantly. I feel like I have to prove myself on a daily basis: to myself, to everyone else, and to Jesus.

Let me be clear on one thing: no one is good enough on our own. God hates sin, and everyone has committed sin. God desires perfection, and our good deeds will never erase our sin. We are nothing without Christ. But with Christ, what hope we have! "Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us, but our sufficiency is from God" (2 Corinthians 3:5). 

Well, I was listening to a radio sermon the other day that was talking about this very thing. The guy speaking - I don't know who it was - was talking about how Satan accuses people of their sins, over and over again. He holds it over their heads so they always think about it, and they tell themselves that their mistakes are all that defines them. This is one of Satan's most-used tricks. He lies to us and gets us to lie to ourselves.

"You'll never be good enough for anything."

"Everyone thinks you're worthless."

"You can't do this."

Peter and Jesus as portrayed by NBC's "AD: The Bible Continues"

The radio speaker was talking specifically about Peter, and how he always felt the need to prove himself to Jesus. He needed to be the best. "Oh, Lord, I will never deny you! Even though all of these others will deny you, I never will!" "I will defend my Lord and cut off this enemy's ear so that He will know that I am the most loyal!" "I'll get out of the boat first and rush to greet him!" You get the picture. Peter understood that to be a follower of Jesus, you should have that joy, that passion to serve Him. However, what Peter didn't get was that Jesus offers rest. Rest from all of those insecurities. Rest from all of the work of proving that you're better than your mistakes.

He knew about Peter's passion and his insecurities, and all of Peter's problems, and He loved him anyway. Even after Peter denied Jesus, Jesus took him back as a friend. Unlike all of the other people around me, Jesus does know about my personal struggles. And He loves me anyway.

That, more than anything else, is what I have the most trouble believing.

Romans 5:8 says, "But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." How could God still love me in the midst of all my problems and mistakes? Every day, when I say, "I'll do better tomorrow?", how could God still care enough about me to send his son to die?

Honestly, it's a mystery to me. But it's true. He does.

Ok, I hate answers like that myself and it pains me to have to put one of those "He just does!" on my blog. I like answers. I like them to be logical. But that's the thing about God: He's too big for any of us to understand. He's not always logical.

And get this: it doesn't matter. We don't have to understand that aspect of God. Because no matter how He does it, He does. As Skillet says in their song Imperfection, "You mean so much that heaven would touch the face of humankind for you." We were worth it to him, and we still are. And instead of falling into the devil's trap and making excuses about how we aren't worth it, we should be praising God that he saw fit to save us, and that he has given us a part in his grand plan for the world.

God made us to fulfill our part.

When He looks at you or me, He doesn't see someone who is constantly messing up. Because of our belief in Jesus, God sees someone who is trying.

As long as you are, of course. Trying, that is.

Peter made mistakes. He was human. He was fallible. But look where he ended up! People today are still talking about him! Even though he had his share of struggles, he was able to #1: get to know Jesus Christ firsthand, which in itself is incredible, and #2: become one of the most successful preachers in the days of the Early Church, and one of the boldest witnesses for the faith. Peter was the first one to preach on the day of Pentecost after the coming of the Holy Spirit, and he was the first one to proclaim Christ to a Gentile. Church tradition says (and I can't say this for fact, but) that Peter is even said to have dictated his discipleship with Jesus to John Mark, who wrote the book of Mark and was a companion of Peter's for many of the later years of his life. Even though Peter was eventually martyred, and I hope that God might not call us to give that ultimate sacrifice, the biblical evidence clearly points to the fact that those who are persecuted and suffer for their witness to Christ (up to and including death) are pleasing in God’s sight and will be honored. Though an arrogant, cocky "man of thunder", Peter was a willing, obedient servant of the Lord, even to death; and he was able to overcome his passion and replace it with a humility that led him to request that he be crucified upside down (historian Tertullian tells us) because he was unfit to be killed in the same way as our Lord.

When I think about Peter's life, it gives me hope. He overcame so much, but Jesus chose him when he was still flailing around in a fisherman's boat, not even trying to work on his flaws. And Jesus has chosen us to do his work as well.

That is an incredible thought to me.

God has made us good enough to accomplish whatever he has called us to. "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them" (Ephesians 2:10). 

God has made us and that alone gives us worth. "For you formed my inward parts, you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well" (Psalm 139:13-14).  

God will give us strength to get through any situation. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" Philippians 4:13.


I know that these verses and the story of Peter encourages and strengthens me, and I hope they do the same for you. I hope you realize your worth in Christ Jesus.

Until next time, dear readers!

 

I Hope You Install Humility

I don't know about you, but sometimes I get frustrated with speakers when they preach on ambiguous ideas. Often, they will talk about what to do, but not how to do it. I find that they occasionally take for granted the fact that their audience knows the definition of basic "Sunday School" words. However, when knowledge of what a word means is lacking, the whole message can go up in smoke. One of these ambiguous ideas that I struggle with a lot is understanding the concept of humility. Pastors can base entire sermons on the verse Luke 14:11: "For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” That's a great verse, right? But how can you "humble yourself" if you aren't sure what the word means? If the word is even slightly misunderstood, the entire meaning of the sermon is, as well.   

What exactly is "humility"? Everyone seems to have a different idea. The word is understood as multiple ideas that have varying but significant differences. Some think that the word is an attribute of one who allows others to walk all over them, a "doormat". Some think that it means to think low of yourself, to put yourself in the lowest possible position. Some think it is simply seeing yourself for who you truly are. According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, "humility" is "the quality or state of not thinking you are better than other people" (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/humility), I believe that humility is a little bit of all of that, but I think it is more. True humility has many faces, and that is why it is so difficult to clearly define.

I think that Philippians 2: 3-11 defines it best: "Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men..." Count others more significant than yourself. This means that humility is not only the way you see yourself, it is also (and perhaps more importantly) the way you view and treat others.

Jesus is the best example, of course, having given up his position as prince of heaven to come to this dirty place and follow his Father's plan to the end, knowing that all things work together for good for those who love Him (see I Hope You See Hope ). All truly great leaders have this virtue: humility, otherwise known as "leading by example". For some people it’s natural. Others need to consciously practice it. Either way, if this is an attribute that you have perfected or are working on, others will notice. They will be impressed. And they will want to follow your example.

In order to master this view of others, one must first master their own view of themselves. Simply stated, if you think of yourself as less than everyone else, humility will be an easy install into your day-to-day routine. If you tend to struggle with pride, thinking of yourself maybe more highly than you should, then this transition will be more difficult.

Focusing on serving is perhaps the best way to install humility. Letting someone ahead of you in line when you see they are in a hurry is an act of humility. Cleaning the bathroom of your office, even though you own the company, is an example of humility. The star of the basketball team could score a tremendous amount of baskets in any given game, but instead he takes lots of opportunities to pass the ball to his teammates so they can try to score as well. He is showing humility.

• Anne Hathaway turned in a strong performance in Les Miserables. In the movie, she sings a song called “I Dreamed A Dream.” This song is beautiful and is often sung to showcase a singer’s vocal talents. Rather than belt out the song in a way that would show how beautiful her voice is, Anne chose to sing it in as realistic a way as possible, which meant her voice did not sound as beautiful as it could. Singing it this way brought more believability to her character, even though it did not sound as beautiful as it could have.
• Even though Kate Middleton married into British royalty, she still likes to do her own grocery shopping and cooking.
• During a recent cross-country race in North Dakota, a runner carried an injured competitor across the finish line. Danielle LaNoue injured her patella only a few feet from the finish. Melanie Bailey encountered the fallen runner and stopped, though others ran past. Though she gave up her chance of winning the race, she helped the stranger across the finish line, and the two finished together. Now, they have become friends and constantly exchange Facebook messages.

When I read the stories of these people, I was, quite honestly, amazed. Anne Hathaway has a beautiful voice and yet she chose to show emotion over talent. Kate Middleton is a princess, for goodness sakes! If I was a princess, I think I'd probably have people do my shopping and cooking. So I could do more writing, of course.

I wish I was a princess.

Anyway, I was most impressed with the story of Danielle and Melanie. I'm sure that Melanie isn't the first runner to help a hurt competitor, and I'm sure that she won't be the last. But those stories always get me because they're real. They are real people - in this case, teenagers - defying the norm and going outside of their comfort zone to help others. I love that. I am inspired by these stories, especially when the people involved are young people. They don't fit the mold of the rebellious teen, the wild and careless. They care, and they show it. And they are a great example to follow if humility is something you struggle with.

Sometimes caring for others is not difficult. I like to babysit my cousins. They are fun to be around and I like to help my aunts out once in a while. I like to cook dinner for my family. These are times when caring comes easy. But what about the stranger, the homeless man you pass every day on your way to work? Maybe he makes you uncomfortable. Maybe you don't think he is safe. Still, buying him lunch, sitting and eating it with him would be an example of humility on your part. You can give up your pride and still be able to retain your dignity. Sometimes it's hard. But it's always the right choice.

C.S. Lewis put it this way: "Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less."  

So I hope you install humility into your daily routine. I hope you make it a habit. And I hope that you can use it as a tool to change the world around you.

 

Blessings until next time!

 

 

 

I Hope You Take a Stand

This past Sunday was Palm Sunday, the Sunday when pastors traditionally go over the events that took place a week before Jesus' death on the cross. The sermon usually goes something like this, "Jesus entered and this huge crowd went crazy with happiness and worship over his coming, and then later the same crowd turned on him and became a roaring crowd of hypocrites screaming for his murder." Am I right? And, yeah, that's technically what happened.

My pastor was no exception - he did preach about the Triumphal Entry on Palm Sunday. However, he did it in a way that I've never heard it done before, and in a way that resonated with me as a reminder of something really important. He talked about how Jesus sometimes asks us to do something completely crazy without giving us the full picture of what He has in mind, the way the disciples were asked to go and take a donkey without knowing why. I thought that this was such a unique way of keeping the tradition of preaching on the Triumphal Entry that I decided to write about it here.

The story of the Triumphal Entry is found, among other places, in Matthew 21. As I mentioned before, Jesus had asked the disciples to go and get him a donkey. He wanted them to just take it from the stable. If anyone thought that was strange, the disciples were to tell them that, "The Lord has need of it," and no questions would be asked.

Sometimes Jesus asks us to do things that don't make any sense, expecting us to do them anyway. He has a bigger plan and often, he chooses not to reveal it. Sometimes these things seem completely crazy. This is a hard truth because we have a "need" to understand all the factors before we invest in a course of action. I know that I'm that way, and I think that everyone is, to some extent. Some people would just get on a plane and wait to see where it would take them, but they wouldn't get on a plane without packing or without a passport. Even the most adventurous tends to take some kind of precaution. When something like this is asked of you, it is the ultimate "leap of faith". Jesus asks you to trust him and wait and see what happens, because He does have a plan. But following God fully oftentimes takes real guts. Many times we do not want to do what He wants us to.

That isn't to say that every time you have the urge to do something crazy, Jesus is leading you. Sometimes, the crazy is just that: crazy. He might lead you to dive off a bridge to save someone's life, but I highly doubt he would call you to just jump off a bridge. Taking a leap of faith is different from doing random things on a whim. Knowing whether or not Jesus is leading you takes careful consideration and prayer before action is taken, even if the outcome of that action is obvious, which it rarely is.

I believe that sometimes, though, the path that Jesus wants you to take is obvious even if you don't know where it leads. We should take a stand for Jesus, like the people who shouted and laid their coats down for Jesus (Matt. 21: 8-9). Sometimes this is something that you don't want to do. I probably wouldn't want to put my coat down for some dirty donkey's hooves to trod all over. My coat is nice. I want to keep it that way. But if Jesus were coming to my hometown and I wanted to honor him, I might have to ignore my feeling for my jacket and lay it before him.

My friends might think it was strange, me letting my favorite fleece get all muddy under someone's feet, but I shouldn't let that bother me. You can't let what other people think deter you from doing what you know you should. Taking a stand for Christ is always the right decision. Most likely you will be targeted. Jesus had already made some powerful enemies, and the crowd's reaction to His entry into Jerusalem had them riled up, to put it mildly (Matt. 21: 14-17). You will probably make enemies as well. Even if they aren't intent on killing you, they might make your life miserable and you just have to let them, because the absolute worst thing you could do is back down. Jesus says that he will acknowledge us in heaven if we acknowledge Him on earth, which also gives the impression that the reverse is true - when we get to heaven, Jesus won't recognize us if we haven't acknowledged him while we were still on the earth. "Therefore everyone who confesses Me before men, I will also confess him before My Father who is in heaven. But whoever denies Me before men, I will also deny him before My Father who is in heaven (Matthew 10:32-33)." God is so much more powerful than the people on earth who can hurt us or make our lives uncomfortable for a while. 

We need to do something crazy. 

We need to take a stand. 

I was so interested in this concept that I did a little bit of research, and a found multiple stories of people who recently stood up for their faith in the judgmental culture that we live in today. One of these really stuck with me, and that was the story of Megan and Mandy, twins who's graduation ceremony sparked a lawsuit, and a revival.

Megan and Mandy were graduating that weekend, and Megan had been selected to say a prayer during the ceremony. The morning that the ceremony was to take place, a federal judge issued an order that barred Russell County High School and Megan (cited in the order by name) from conducting the prayer during commencement. Megan faced a terrible decision - one that could change the outcome of her entire life. Three hours before the graduation ceremony, Megan received a phone call from Matt Staver of Liberty Counsel, an organization devoted to protecting religious freedom. They told her that they would be behind her every step of the way, and that God can turn our troubles into amazing opportunities (Harris, Brett and Alex). 

"Only a few hours later more than 3,000 people packed into the Russell County High gymnasium to watch 200 seniors graduate. As the principal finished his opening remarks the senior class suddenly stood as one body and began to recite The Lord’s Prayer!

Before they could finish the audience erupted into thunderous applause. Some students were too overcome with emotion to finish. But the statement had been made. They would not bow down to the ACLU (Harris, Brett and Alex)."

Then, Megan stepped up to the podium, prepared to give a speech based on the secular poem The Road Less Traveled. However, she felt that God wanted her to say something else. "You did not put me here to recite a poem, Lord."  She prayed for guidance and for the right words to say, and that night she gave her personal testimony and spoke of the peace that comes when you give your life to Jesus. Over and over and over, the speech was interrupted with applause by the very receptive audience. The next morning, Fox News called Megan, and that night, she repeated her testimony on the air, in front of millions of viewers (Harris, Brett and Alex).

 "That same afternoon, Mat Staver spoke with Dr. Jerry Falwell, Founder and then Chancellor of Liberty University, and was authorized to offer Megan full scholarship to join the 2006 freshman class. Upon hearing the good news, Megan was overcome with tearful amazement.

 'Are you kidding?' she asked. 'I’ve been praying for several years to be able to attend Liberty University, but I simply could not afford it.' But to Mr. Staver’s bewilderment, Megan did not immediately accept the offer. He was puzzled. 

Mr. Staver called her a few days later and voice that sounded just like Megan answered the phone. 'Megan?' he asked.

'No, this is Mandy, her twin sister,' the voice replied.

Mandy, he found out, was the one who orchestrated the recitation of The Lord’s Prayer — distributing bookmarks with a copy of the prayer on it in case anyone forgot the words (see the bookmarks in this post’s header).

Mr. Staver immediately called Dr. Falwell. 'Guess what,' he said. 'Megan has a twin sister!'   

Dr. Falwell paused briefly, and offered Mandy a full scholarship as well! The twin sisters, who had been planning to attend University of the Cumberlands together, now had an open door to their first choice — Liberty University! (Harris, Brett and Alex)."

Mandy and Megan were both able to receive a wonderful opportunity from their first choice college, not to mention the amazing testimony that they both had, and all because Megan was able to stand up for what she believed in. I'm sure she was afraid. I'm sure she thought that what she as going to do was crazy. I'm sure she was not comfortable, and I'm sure she made a few enemies. But God worked wonders in her life, and she was able to watch as a miracle happened. At the beginning, when she was deciding what she should do, she had no way of knowing how much would come from her decision to follow God (Harris, Brett and Alex).

This story is inspiring in so many ways. It is an amazing story of miraculous courage, and Christian students and teachers, bosses and workers, mothers and daughters and sons and fathers, can all take away the encouragement that God is still working in this country today. Sometimes He calls us to do crazy things. Maybe He is calling you to speak up when that teacher says something you disagree with, even though you could get detention. Maybe He is calling you to gently talk to that family member who is struggling with some sin, even though they might lose respect for you. Maybe He is calling you to go on that trip, to minister to those people, even though it is so far away.

Maybe He is calling you.


WORKS CITED:

Harris, Alex, and Brett Harris. "Megan and Mandy: Taking a Stand for Christ." Web log post. The Rebelution. 
N.p., 11 July 2008. Web. 21 Mar. 2016.           

I Hope You Can See Hope

Hi! Ready for another round of ramblings?

So it's getting to be my favorite time of year again: Easter is once again creeping upon us. I know it's a little early yet to be thinking about it, but, as I mentioned, it's my favorite time of year and I just couldn't wait any longer to write about it.

Easter is my favorite holiday, even more than Christmas or Thanksgiving. I like it because my family gets together, I like it because I get to dress up, I like it because I get to see my friends. But I love it because it is a yearly reminder of what Jesus Christ did for us, and that is cause for somber reflection, yes; but also praise and celebration.

So, I definitely think that Jesus is a hero who's story deserves to be told. And since that is one of the purposes of this blog, to share the inspiring stories of heroes, I think I'll do just that. Really quickly and briefly, here's some background in case you don't know, or maybe you just forgot:

Easter comes in three parts.

First: This dude Jesus - who happens to be the perfect, sinless son of the Creator God - leaves his paradise in Heaven and comes to earth. He spends thirty-three years among us humans, eating, drinking and talking with us. This in itself is huge. He also preaches and does miracles to convince us that he is, in fact, who he says he is, and that is God. He makes friends and feels emotions and connects with us so he can understand what we're going through.

Second: Jesus is brutally murdered. He's killed. He knew this was going to happen - in fact, it's the reason he came to the earth in the first place. Because we are sinners we needed a perfect sacrifice to compensate for our guilt. And we are guilty. A mob took him and he went with them, unprotestingly, and they beat him within an inch of his life. Finally, they crucified him. He was definitely dead and he chose to die for you, and for me.

Third: Jesus doesn't stay dead. He, in his infinite power and grace, rose from the dead; not like a zombie or a ghost but as a regular person. This is the reason we celebrate Easter. If Jesus had not risen from the dead, we would not be able to partake of the gift that God can now offer us: eternal life with him -  if we believe this true story and follow God's leading.

(If you want to know more about this awesome true story of good overcoming evil, the epitome of hope, take a look at the gospel of John in the Bible.)

This is what I believe with my whole heart. I know that it isn't necessarily popular and I am not trying to preach, only to share information and truth for others to make a decision of their own. The thing is, if I've chosen wrong, I've only wasted my life. If someone chooses something else, and they chose wrong...well, they've wasted their eternity.

So, I wanted to share something that I think is really interesting about the story of Jesus's resurrection that was shared with me by one of my best friends. John 20:15-16 is the story of Jesus first appearing after this miracle, to Mary Magdalene. It says this: " He asked her, 'Woman, why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?' Thinking he was the gardener, she said, 'Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him.' Jesus said to her, 'Mary.' She turned toward him and cried out in Aramaic, 'Rabboni!' (which means “Teacher”)."



He even spoke to her and she remained unaware.

Mary was grieving tremendously. Her hope for the future of mankind had just died, this man that she had spent the past (about) three years worshipping and learning from and loving. She was so caught up in her distress that she failed to notice the presence of her Teacher, her Lord. Her God. Jesus was standing right behind her. He even spoke to her and she remained unaware. 
Similarly, I think that we can get so caught up in our own troubles that we don't notice Jesus. We cry out for him, stumbling blindly in our darkness and ignorance, not realizing that Jesus is right there, waiting for us to notice, ready to catch us if we fall. He's got our back. But we concentrate on our troubles even as we pray for guidance, and we don't feel him there. And then you just want to give up, because how can you do it on your own?

Well, you can't.

But Jesus is holding onto you, even if you aren't holding onto him.

As soon as you search for him, he will make himself known to you. He has a way of popping back up, if only you know where to look. He is reflected in the natural world all around us. Little things, anything from the lyrics to a song that just won't get out of your head, to a shooting star that touches your heart just right. Jesus can show himself in many ways as long as you are looking. But most of all, he shows himself in the actions of his followers. That is why I share stories of people performing good deeds. Even if those people aren't Christians, their actions can inspire Christians to do the same for our Jesus. It brings glory to God. And it helps people who are searching for Jesus to be able to find him. That could be an unbeliever, or it could be a Christian who has "fallen away" (for lack of a better term) and has all but given up. We have the opportunity to show others hope, to be lights to even the darkest of hearts.

And this just by our actions and our words. If we keep our eyes open, and know what to look for, we will be encouraged by the knowledge that Jesus is right there, right behind us. If we keep our eyes open, we'll recognize him. And if we believe in him, he will never leave us. Hebrews 13:5-6 says that "he has said, “' will never leave you nor forsake you.' So we can confidently say, 'The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?'" 

This Easter, I hope you can see the hope: the Hope for all people. I hope you have a wonderful holiday, and that you will touch others lives with something you say or do. I hope you never take for granted the kindnesses of others because they are how God shows himself in our world.